communication

very important thing in this world..haha, k la, im actually forcing myself to talk about this, cuz SOME PPL want me to update my blog now, so i apologize for d quality..(ben its all ur fault)

k, i think im done stating d obvious, so yea, i bet u guys notice rite, that a lot of times that ppl ask certain stuff that u kinda are like forced to decline or u are forced to say yes..like for example, "hey, can i ask for ur help?" but yea, k, i noe that some of u dont feel obliged to answer as pressured, but yea, ppl get pressured to be nice or to give d socially acceptable answer..esp when it concerns others feelings.." do u think i look fat?" so yea, guys are like forced to say no, or something like that..sorry la but i find that really annoying..if i think ur annoying, i will say i think ur annoying, but its not out of malice but its actually out of care cuz i want to see u grow or change to be better..honestly i use to think that if we all just spoke out our true feeling with no malicious content or tone in our voice, the world would be a better place, then again that is under d assumption that everyone wants to grow or wants to change for d better..

u can ask my BB friends, i tell them stuff that u cant imagine telling another person..i remember saying, " dude, ur breath stinks..im gonna wait for u to brush ur teeth before i talk to u"( that was like in d morning la, n we just woke up) but yea, d point is that i care about my friends la, n i expect my friends to tell me stuff like this also..imagine, there are ppl out there who are suffering uncomfortability because they dont want to hurt others feelings..well, then again, im a culprit also too..thats cuz certain things that ppl can take, like saying " i find u annoying" that is too mean, n i think can be only said to ppl who u noe can take a hit like that..if ur not sure, then dont try that..even if u noe d person can take a hit like that, always ask first..if not ur relationship with d person will surely suffer..if only ppl are open about themselves, then they can like change for d better..haiz.. this is y house rocks..

Cheers