It's about a feeling that has no meaning..

not bad eh? haha..not sure if the title even makes sense, but i like it..haha..


So yes..y suddenly a post about love? ESPECIALLY since i've like just posted something like a couple of days ago? well, i was reading ppl's blogs, and what i find interesting is that this topic keeps popping out..the topic of "love"..and yea, this of course intrigued me, because i saw a pattern, and i guess as psyshologists (and scientist) when a pattern is noticed, it must be studied..but yea, im not doing a study..who am i to do a study? hehe..

anyway, as i said, i noticed that ppl like to talk about love quite abit..so yea, what i've noticed is that in blog posts, ppl are trying to define the idea of what is "love" or maybe trying to search for the meaning..and well, u can get into technicalities, like the oxford dictionary's definition or what ever..and well, usually it also revolves around the fact that the english language only has 1 word to describe that feeling, which is love..so, u can say that defining the meaning to the english word is like trying to use a blunt tool..

So, what has intrigued me the most is the fact that ppl WANT to define the word..Why can't ppl accept the fact that love is love? it doesn't need to be defined..well, the obvious answer would be that because ppl want to be clear about which definition of love they are talking about..like when a person says " i love my dog" they dont mean it in a romantic kind of way (well, at least i hope so)

So yea, that's d obvious reason out of the way..what i noticed is that ppl are trying to look for a deeper meaning for love, especially when it is between ppl.. it could be romantic, sibling or even parental love, but ppl try to find a true meaning to it..i mean u think about it, doesnt it have like a common theme running through each type (of which im talking about love between people)?

well, i could actually try to strucutize it and find a way to label each theme that is running through love, but that would take too long, and i've gotta sleep soon and all that i would have done would be beating around the bush and finally coming to this point, so yea, here is my point..

⁴Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (New International Version)

this is really the best way to define love (hopefully by now you guys noe what i mean) but yea, love is not just a feeling, for all feelings require u to act out physically..when ur happy ur facial muscles are more relaxed and u smile more, when ur sad u give off a stone face and ur body language does protray it..when ur angry, muscles tense up and sometimes ur voice is raised, when ur anxious u will act in an irregular behaviour..so yea, i can go through all the emotions we feel, but again, i will cut to the chase..when we feel love we should act it out also..it would only be natural rite? k, i noe that there are some emotions that ppl do show, and some ppl think that it is not right to show these emotions, and well this is where psychologists come in..when you don't express (man, its SOO hard thinking of a non-psychological term) ur true feeling that you feel, it is called repression, and that leads on to more psychological discrepencies..

so yea, thats it, thanks for reading..

P.S. yea, i did read ppl's blogs and was inpired to write this, so if u are one of those ppl, im not putting u down in anyway, im actually quite sure that i've also tried to look for the meaning of love myself n posted something about it, but yea..too lazy to go n look up what i've written..so yea..

Cheers and God Bless